From Forgiven to Forgiveness” chapter one - What is Forgiveness?

Jay Adams calls “apologizing” the world’s unsatisfactory substitute for forgiveness.

“uh…sorry”…”that’s ok.” That is apology and it’s not the real thing.

There is another question that parallels “what is forgiveness”.

What does forgiveness DO?

What makes “forgiveness”, “forgiveness”?

Is it a feeling? No - Scripture says nothing about “feeling” forgiving. Scripture tells us to forgive.

Eph.4:32 tells us, “…forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”

The “as” gives us a model. Strong’s gives the definition

1)according as
…a)just as, even as
…b)in proportion as, in the degree that
2)since, seeing that, agreeably to the fact that
3)when, after that

What does Scripture tell us about God’s forgiveness of us? Does He simply sit in heaven and “emote”? No, He gives us a promise.

Isa 43:25 “I, I am he who blots out your transgressions for my own sake,
and I will not remember your sins.

Jer 31:34b For I will forgive their iniquity, and I will remember their sin no more.”

If forgiveness were merely a “feeling”, we could not rely on this promise.

If forgiveness were merely “forgetting”, it would not be a purposeful relinquishing of the debt. I can “forget” my keys. But the Almighty Creator of the universe cannot forget anything. It is a commitment to not recall, not bring it to remembrance, not to bring it up, remind, mention or record the offense.

If I make that promise to forgive - to not bring it up again - and I do, that is breaking a promise. I went through a really rough time with my daughter a couple of years ago. That which was done is no longer between us - and the repentance/forgiveness process works.

We went through this book. I DID bring it up again and my daughter (as my sister in Christ) reminded me of the promise. I had my own repenting to do. The process works.

Forgiveness is a promise.

Winding Down…

for the semester and school year.

My literature class is finished…

My Spanish final is on Tuesday…not so good…

Our school packages the giveaway bags for the 5/3 Riverbank Run (several thousand of them)…and we need to have them finished by Thursday because…

Friday is Very Special Arts!

And the following Friday is prom! (I think I’ll buy a new dress)

At any rate, I need quiet time with my Spanish today…made more miserable by an early summer cold.