(Edit:  I don't want this to get lost in the com-box so I'm putting it up here.

Can you rephrase the quote so that it can be easily understood what you DID mean?  If I substituted other words and said something like:

A wife who (refuses to submit to her husband's leadership), then, is like a (rebellious teenager who kills his parents).  It's a heart thing to do evil or not to do it, right?...

How would you read that?

My interpretation of a comment on "complegalitarian" (although I think it might be time for them to consider a name change)
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A wife who chooses to submit to her husband is on the same level as a woman who chooses to have an abortion. Ummm...another "wow".

J.K.Gayle says:

Submission of a wife, then, is like the choice of abortion of a mother. It's a heart thing to do evil or not to do it, right? Jesus wants (us) to change our hearts, to know him, to be free and to make free, right? (Emphasis mine)

Did you get that? Submission of a wife is like the choice of abortion.

Let's look to Scripture:

Col. 3:18 Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.

Ex 20:13 "You shall not murder.

and again:

1 Peter 3:5 For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands,
Pro 16...17: There are six things that the LORD hates...hands that shed innocent blood,

Obviously (NOT)...wives that submit to their husbands, as is fitting in the Lord, who hope in God to adorn themselves by submitting to their own husbands...

are like (NOT)

Women who murder their babies and shed innocent blood.

As I said..."wow".