She was sitting in her chair when he got home, settled in to watch a rented move...a "chick flick"
"Why can't you be more like him?" she asked her husband. He shook his head and thought...I'm not him. I'm me and I want to be wanted for who I am.
He nuzzled her neck and whispered..."let's head for bed."
She lifted her shoulder and gently pushed him away, "No, I'm in the middle of this movie. I don't feel like it tonight."
He backed away from her "cold shoulder" and walked to the home computer. Click.
Using porn is the choice of the person viewing it. But within a marriage, there is another person involved. If it's the husband using, the wife is also involved.
I will never say that a husband's choice to use porn is the sin of the wife.
I will say that the sin of the wife of denying her husband could (and sometimes does) lead to the temptation of the husband to use porn.
We have a responsibility to help one another avoid temptation. When we don't help, we often hurt.