I'm ending up doing a series on porn. Since I'm a fan of "Read Your Own Mail" - I'm writing this from the view of a wife whose husband is using porn.
The truth is that this is far, far from being a "male user / women victim" sin.
* 34 percent of female readers of Today's Christian Woman's online newsletter admitted to intentionally accessing Internet porn in a recent poll.
"The poll results indicate that 50% of all Christian men and 20% of all Christian women are addicted to pornography,"
Do more men use porn than women? yes.
But here's a twist - if you figure in "erotica" - and add the typical "romance novels" to the mix - what figures are you going to get? How many women who really wouldn't like their husbands to use porn, have a collection of "romance novels" and know exactly where "the good parts" are?
In my view, the bottom line is this:
If you are a wife who is reading fiction and enjoying the fantasy of a "knight in shining armor" - whether or not it's erotica - and if you'd like your husband to be "a little more like that..."
You are every bit as much importing an outside ideal onto your spouse, as is a husband who is looking at air-brushed images on a screen.
So when we write about porn and put all of the blame squarely on men, we're missing half the boat.