On Complegalitarian, Don Johnson tells us how a complementarian can be a poor witness based on how they react when a woman teaches. A complementarian is not to question, not to raise a fuss, they should either not attend if they know ahead of time or slip out quietly if caught by surprise.
How to turn this table?
If a woman is in a complementarian church and suddenly believes that she is to be in leadership over men, should teach authoritatively in the assembly - against the leadership of that church.
Should she stay and try to convince that church that she is right and they should put her in leadership, should she speak within that church against the leadership of that church and what they believe or should she leave quietly and go to a church who would put her in leadership?
I have asked that question before and an egalitarian answered that of course, she should stand her ground and fight the leadership.