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"Don't let schooling interfere with
your education."


~ Mark Twain ~
I don't really know where this is going, so I'm just going to ramble a bit.I know a lot of "stuff", some of it from school, some from work and a lot of it from self-study. Some of what I know came along by "osmosis".In thinking about the difference between "schooling" and "education", it seems like maybe the difference is in the person that you become as a result.When I think of "schooling", I think of the classes that I took last summer. Both classes were "required" but both were functionally useless. Those two classes were part of my "schooling", not my education. It has been the classes that have made a difference in the way that I approach life that have been a part of my "education".It's the same way in my walk with God. There is "stuff" that I know and some stuff that I know really well. But does it change my life? The answer is yes, it all changes my life, but sometimes not for the better.

What good is knowledge, if there's no heart change? What good is "Calvinism vs Arminianism", if I never go to my knees with the knowledge of the depth of my sin and my need for a Savior? What use is the biography of Martin Luther, if I never come to the understanding of grace? What sense is there in "reading the Bible in a year" if none of it sinks in?

"Education" is a heart change. A big part of my "education" is interwoven with my past.

Part of my "education" has been my problems with getting and staying pregnant. I can hold a woman and really know what it feels like to lose a child. I know what it feels like to face the loss of a marriage; I know what it's like to put everything that will fit into a car (including two kids) and leave...and to return.

I spent 23 years as a married person; different than most married people perhaps because my best friends at church were nearly always single women. But I never really understood the issues that singles face.

Growing up, divorce was something that happened, but I never had to deal with it head on. Even when my brother faced a divorce, I wasn't sure how to deal with it (his marriage survived and even thrived since then). I had a head "schooling" that divorce existed, but not a heart "education" of the emotions that come along with it (and more importantly after it) until I was very close to somebody who had lived through it. Even then, part of my "education" has been to let folks assume what they will (the conclusion that most folks jump to when seeing a 40-ish single mom with teenagers is not "widow"). The way that I've been treated by a few folks in the church has been more of an education than most people realize.

Part of my education has meant coming head on with attitudes toward singles that I never wanted to know existed. Being educated meant walking into a room just in time to hear a minister's wife say "I just don't think it's appropriate for single women to hang out with married couples." It meant having a group of women at church looking at my ring finger and closing the circle. It meant having a man from church volunteer to mentor my son - and never calling.

A bit part of my education is being glad those things happened. God willing, I'll be a wife again someday. When/if that happens, I pray that God will continually bring my "education" to mind as I deal with others, married and single.

These have all been part of the "education", feelings that you can't learn from a book. I don't regret even a single part of anything that God put me through (although some of the choices I've made I do regret) - all of these things have worked together to make me who I am.

That I cannot regret.

I spent the weekend at my mom and dad's house (on the other side of the state from me); as usual, good stuff and not so good stuff.  (Mostly good stuff).

Neither my mom or dad are doing so great physically.  They're doing "ok" - Mom is looking forward to two knee replacements (numbers 4 and 5) and my dad is diabetic with heart problems.

Those "little" things aside, they're planning a three day trip to Mackinac, leaving at 7:00 tomorrow morning with my dad's two sisters and my cousin.  They'll be spending Wednesday on the island.  I hope they're planning on renting a carriage (motor vehicles not allowed) - three of the five can't ride bikes and two of them can't walk (at least very far)!  But they will have fun.

Saturday was spent with my sister and brother and their families (along with Mom and Dad).  It was a good day.  I am the farthest removed (geographically) and I can feel cut off from my family; it was good to get together.

It's the "little" things that I remember.  My kids had a "sword fight" with cat tails...all that fuzz...everywhere.  About 100 Canada geese spent the night in the field across the road...and my dad and Manda had to go "visit".  We went to a nearby gravel pit and the kids did some target shooting.

At this point, my kids are used to the city (walking to McDonald's), and get bored in the country (driving 12 miles to get to anywhere).   Work and school start tomorrow and we're (mostly) ready.

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For a "Carnival Post", this is less "posty" and more informational.

Last weekend was the last weekend before school starts for real. Life is going to be a little crazy.

I'm not quite sure you can call a blog a "ministry", but I want to be able to share, and my blog truly is a journal of what I'm learning and doing. I've been working on blog posts ahead of time, and "pre-posting" so that blogging doesn't get in the way of life and I'm going to be strict with myself about that. August was the first month ever that this blog had a post every single day! I don't know if I'll keep that up, but I'm going to try to be close. Between photo scavenger hunt (which I really enjoy!) and Wordless Wednesday, I'll have two days of photos! "In Other Words" and "Carnival" will keep me structured. That's four days right there! I'll have a lot of fodder for Thursday Thirteens - five days worth of posts! Together with one theological thought post and a book review (I have lots that I've read), I can be posting pretty regularly; and I may have to recruit some help! (another 😉
This could work! 😉 But the blog is not a "real" priority, it's an outlet.

My two biggest priorities are going to be "fitting in" at a new church and keeping my family on an even keel.

The biggest challenge is to keep my life in sync with my kids. This might be going out for dinner so that we sit and talk without distractions - this MUST be a priority! A dear friend told me, after talking about my classes, that I might end up having to repent to my children for this semester; scheduling "family time" is essential.

I've chosen a new church, but summer time is a difficult time to "get into" it; I purposely scheduled classes to leave Wednesday nights clear. I want to do a "women's study" and just "be". I've been a leader of various kinds of groups and right now, I just want to "be" and to seek God and to make friends. For right now, new friends at a new church seems like a good goal.

About my job: I really like my job, but this year is going to be "challenging". I'm with a different lead teacher and one who is very organized and regimented (that's not a put-down, it's probably exactly what I need!) The students are older and "quieter".

The new room is in a different part of the school, which means that I'll have more contact with a different set of staff - that will be very nice! This room is also already into its schedule; this is good thing.

Every classroom I work in gives me a different insight into the very special children I work with and I don't expect this year will be any different.

This is my "first job".

The second job is the two classes that I have opted to take.

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This essay was written by John MacArthur.

In this essay, MacArthur unapologetically answers Roman Catholic apologists.

The very first point is that we (as humans) have the tendancy to venerate tradition and there are many world religions that rely totally on tradition and oral transmission (Native American religions and Druidism, to name two.) Even among the religionsh, such as Hinduism, that use sacred writings, tradition is blended.

What happens is that it ends up that Scripture is read through the "translator" of tradition, thus rendering tradition the highest authority, because only through tradition can the Scripture be accurate.

Traditional Judaism follows this Scripture-plus-tradition pattern; the familiar books of the Old Testament alone are considered "Scripture", but the Jews have added the Talmud - this is the "lens" through which they read Scripture, rendering the Scripture in submission to the Talmud.

Christ told them:

"This people honors me with their lips,
but their heart is far from me;
in vain do they worship me,
teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.

You leave the commandment of God and hold to the tradition of men."

This was inexcusable; the Jews were in direct disobedience to God's Word: "You shall not add to the word which I am commanding you, nor take away from it, that you may keep the commandments of the Lord your God which I command you" (Deuteronomy 4:2).

MacArthur writes:

So the revealed Word of God, and nothing else, was the supreme and sole authority in Judaism. This alone was the standard of truth delivered to them by God Himself. Moses was instructed to write down the very words God gave him (Exodus 34:27), and that written record of God's Word became the basis for God's covenant with the nation (Exodus 24:4, 7). The written Word was placed in the Ark of the Covenant (Deuteronomy 31:9), symbolizing its supreme authority in the lives and the worship of the Jews forever. God even told Moses' successor, Joshua: "Be strong and very courageous; be careful to do according to all the law which Moses My servant commanded you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, so that you may have success wherever you go. This book of the law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night., so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it" Joshua 1:7 -- 8).

Thus, the principle of Sola Scriptura is given to us in the Word of God.

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The request is going around to explain blog names...

For years I was Mrs. "so and so" - I worked in schools, so that was my title and that's what kids called me at church.

And then, I wasn't a "Mrs." anymore - technically, I guess that's my "official" title, but I'm not- not really.

But - (gee) I had been married for 23 years and I have two kids; I'm not exactly a "miss" either!

So, year ago I needed a different Yahoo! ID and since the kids at school had been calling me "ms" I tried out "Ms Ellen".  It was taken; but MzEllen was not!

By default, I was now MzEllen on Yahoo! It seems that variation is not common, so it's worked everywhere else also - this is a good thing.

That's the "MzEllen" part.

The "& Co." part came around because simple "MzEllen" sounded kind of lame.  Every once in a great while, one of my kids will make a post, so that makes us a group (sort of) and since a lot of my blog involves my family (and we are quite a company), the "& Co." part just sort of sounded about right.

That's the "& Co." part.

Not very dramatic, but (in my loftier moments) I think that my blog speaks for itself...the name identifies, it doesn't describe.  Like me, sometimes it sort of defies description...

Thirteen Things I Need Flashcards For
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  1. Distinguish between anatomy and physiology. Be able to give an example from the human body showing how design and function are difficult to separate.
  2. Name and explain characteristics of living things.
  3. Define metabolism. Distinguish between two types of metabolic reactions and explain why they are important in the human body.
  4. Name the describe requirements of an organism.
  5. What is homeostasis?
  6. Explain how a negative feedback system works.
  7. How does a positive feedback system work?
  8. Distinguish between axial and appendicular portions of the body.
  9. Distinguish between the dorsal and ventral body cavities, and name the smaller cavities within each.
  10. Be able to distinguish between visceral and parietal membranes; also locate pleural, pericardial, and peritoneal membranes.
  11. Systems – organs, basic functions.
  12. Diagram – use of directional terms; planes
  13. Describe anatomical position.

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Christians are persecuted.

We debate doctrine, we debate about "the imputation of Adam's guilt", we debate about this and about that. Don't misunderstand - some of these are important debates because they affect our understanding of Christ and His cross.
In another part of the world, only a month ago four Christians were deported from Saudi Arabia. Their crime: “preaching to Muslims, planting churches and gathering ladies and gentlemen together for prayer.”

Plainclothes security police arrested the four men at their Friday morning worship service in Jeddah’s Al-Rowaise district on June 9. At 11 a.m., more than 20 officers descended on the rented room where approximately 250 Eritreans and Ethiopians were worshipping, Wendewesen said.

Armed with wooden clubs and guns, the policemen took seats offered them by the worshippers and stayed to listen to the sermon. After the service, the officers flashed ID cards and escorted the four church leaders to offices of the Ministry of Interior.

The next day, authorities transferred the Christians to a civil police station where they were beaten and forced to sign a 10-page document.

While these men were in prison, they say that that their only distraction from the miserable conditions were the Muslim who were curious about Christianity.

Imprisoned, beaten and tortured for preaching the Gospel - their response was to preach the Gospel.

"And the high priest questioned them, saying, "We strictly charged you not to teach in this name, yet here you have filled Jerusalem with your teaching, and you intend to bring this man's blood upon us." But Peter and the apostles answered, "We must obey God rather than men."