Phil asked me to marry him and I said yes!
It was perfect. We walked up (one of) to my favorite benches in my favorite park and sat to rest. He gave me a big kiss and I told him it went to my head. He said..."just wait."
Phil asked me to marry him and I said yes!
It was perfect. We walked up (one of) to my favorite benches in my favorite park and sat to rest. He gave me a big kiss and I told him it went to my head. He said..."just wait."
Two important ones; both of them are integral to the "who" of who I am.
"Complementarian or Egalitarian?"
Search this blog for "gender" issues, I am a firm Complementarian - this is a deal breaker. I am convinced from Scripture that the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the church. That Christ is the role model for a husband's love, and the church is the role model for a wife's submission.
"Reformed? Or what?"
Not a deal breaker, but darn close. I want a home of peace, and I cannot be at peace with somebody who is constantly at war with my beliefs.
A while ago I wrote this, remembering ancient history.
Today, the song still resonates.
Because He lives, I can face tomorrow.
Because He lives, All fear is gone!
Because I know He holds the future
And life is worth the living just because He lives!
The LORD confides in those who fear him;
he makes his covenant known to them.
My eyes are ever on the LORD,
for only he will release my feet from the snare.
Turn to me and be gracious to me,
for I am lonely and afflicted.
The troubles of my heart have multiplied;
free me from my anguish.
"If we don't ask the right questions, we'll never get the right answers."
too true...in any part of life.
and cry to her that her warfare is ended,
that her iniquity is pardoned,
that she has received from the LORD’s hand
double for all her sins.
A voice cries: "In the wilderness prepare the way of the LORD;
make straight in the desert a highway for our God.
Every valley shall be lifted up,
and every mountain and hill be made low;
the uneven ground shall become level,
and the rough places a plain.
And the glory of the LORD shall be revealed,
and all flesh shall see it together,
for the mouth of the LORD has spoken."
And I said, "What shall I cry?"
All flesh is grass,
and all its beauty is like the flower of the field.
The grass withers, the flower fades
when the breath of the LORD blows on it;
surely the people are grass.
The grass withers, the flower fades,
but the word of our God will stand forever.
We're preparing to send Tom off to college again. I've adjusted very well to having the house to myself. The drawback is that I don't need or want this much house.
Snow removal, furnace repair, water heater replacement (even with huge and gratefully received financial gifts) and roof repair and driveway repair coming up and...and...and...
I'm tired of being a single (alone, not single-family-dwelling) homeowner.
I've breezed through the websites of a couple of apartment of complexes that look altogether tempting. My house payment/rent would go down, my heating bill would drop by $100, my electric would be non-existent. No more paying for garbage pickup, snow removal, lawn mowing.
I would have to pay for a storage unit/place for my camper, or make arrangements to leave it at my dad's house during the non-camping season, so I'd only have to pay storage for part of the year.
Just thinking...if I'm going to be in Grand Rapids, I might as well take some of the pressure off.
In the next twelve months, I want to believe for more than I believed for in 2009. I want to reach harder and burn hotter than I did in 2009. Should someone want to write my story at the end of my days, I want them to stare at January 1, 2010 wondering “What in God’s name happened to him then?’
Came up on my shuffle
I want to somebody's everything...
I refuse to settle for something less than great.
And if it takes a lifetime, then that's how long I'll wait.
'Cause all I want is everything, is that too much to ask?
Have romance, love and passion; find magic that will last.And I want someone to think they'll die if they can't be with me.
I want to be their joy, their pride, their dreams,
The very air they breathe.
I want to wake up feelin' loved and go to bed the same.
Yes, I want to be somebody's everything, somebody's everything.
This is the first Christmas since I was 17 that there has not been a man in my life.
Just...that.