(Early in the afternoon )
I figured out how to uplead a "theme" - of the ones I found on line,
this is the one I liked, but there was some weirdness getting it uploaded. I've already altered it a little bit - please let me know what you all think (one thing I'm not sure about is how the width looks on different monitors - I have a really big one and whether or not the sidebar looks better on the left or the right) - never mind, I went back to the original. I also have to figure out how to make sure the sidebar looks the same on all the pages (it does now, except for "pages", but with the last template when I changed the sidebar it only changed for one page) - as good as it's gonna get.
I also have to rediscover the blogrolls I'm on and get the new code...it's a good thing I'm off work for a couple of weeks!
Next, I'm going to go shopping! And take a few photos.
Then, I'll edit the sidebar)
(early in the morning)
A bit of a warning - things are going to be a little weird while I arrange the "theme", sidebar and stuff.
I'm new to WordPress and my sidebar is doing things that I don't expect (like disappear) - that's why I have the default theme.
So, please be patient, I'm actually having a lot of fun figuring all this out.