Daily Archives: July 17, 2006


"When life whacks you so hard your head flies off, sew it back on and keep going."
~ Mary Pierce ~

The inspiration for this quote came from (basically) "what I learned from my rag doll".

I had a rag doll like that - her name was "Judy". She'd fall apart and get sewn back up; over and over. The thing is, the more I loved her, the more she fell apart; and the more she fell apart the more I loved her.

Sometimes life seems like that. We have a Master Craftsman/Creator who loves us and who picks us up and puts us back together when nobody else can. When we fall apart, that is when it seems that is when we can feel His love the most. And the more He loves us, the more we can plan on needing Him.

Some of us have had our heads sewn on more often than others - and some of us have felt like our heads are only hanging on by a thread...for a very long time.

I used to have a cross stitch piece hanging on the wall of my old house; it was a cat holding a very worn stuffed mouse, "This is Harold, my mouse. He used to have fur but I loved him too hard."

My doll, Judy was like that. I loved her too hard. There have been times that I felt like God was "loving me too hard." But that isn't true.

The more worn Judy was, the more I loved her. The more time I spent putting her back together, the more precious she was. It was that process that made that doll important to me.
I don't regret any of the things that have happened to me; they have worked together to make me who I am: a precious child of the King.


It's not the play, it's who you're playing with!

Last Tuesday we went to the beach...Lake Michigan has beautiful, sandy beaches!

  • My daughter took along a friend and together with my son, they dug a hole. A really big hole in the sand. They took my plastic tote and filled it with water and tried to fill the hole. Then they played in the water...My two kids are very close (for brother and sister).
  • People look at them and comment on how close they are! They "play" together, whether it's video games, at the beach, on vacation. Play has helped them build a relationship.Water fights, water pistol fights, etc...

    Why does water seem to play such a part in the play in my life? Maybe because there can be so much mischief in water - you see it and you want to splash, to throw it, to play!

    I know that I need more play in my life...or maybe I just need more water...

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    I've spent a good deal of time writing about how wives should treat their husbands - why? I mean - I'm single and (other than looking forward, hopefully, to a marriage), why would it make a difference to me?

    I believe that (for any believer) understanding the role of wives and husbands is a step toward understanding the relationship between Christ and His bride. It works in the other direction; understanding the relationship between Christ and His bride is a step toward understanding the Biblical relationship between a husband and wife.

    There are many references to this relationship and Paul refers to Christ and His bride when he (Paul) instructs husbands and wives in Ephesians 5,

    "Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.
    Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish."

    As we look at Christian marriages, we should be able to see Christ and His bride reflected.

    Does the wife demand "equal leadership"? Does the church demand that she have "equal leadership" with Christ?

    Is there "mutual submission"? Of course - Christ submitted to His role as Savior, Sacrifice and King. The church (is supposed to) submit to His leadership.

    But do they share the same role? No, there is only room for one King of Kings, Lord of Lords. There is only room for one Head of the church.

    It is that way in marriage - one leader emerges.

    If we see marriage as being reflected in the relationship between Christ and the church, we must see marriage in a different way than the world does. The world doesn't like being submissive, the world seeks self.

    If we see Christ and the church reflected in Christian marriages, we are better led to submit to Christ's headship, as we see wives submit to their husbands.

    In January, the "prophet" and "apostle" from Firehouse Full Gospel Ministry came to speak at my old church. The pastor stood next to his wife while the "prophet" laid hands on her and performed a Pentecostal "activation and impartation" - a human being "imparting the gift of the Holy Spirit" and "activating" that gift in the pastor's wife.

    I was angry - he is her husband and it is his role to watch over her, to protect her from error and he didn't do his job! He stood beside her and let this happen!

    And so it is with Christ and His bride - He gave His life for her, He washes her of water with the Word. He guides her and protects her.

    This "one flesh" means something - one body, one heart, one head.

    If we see Christ reflected in the husband and the church reflected in the wife, that is a Christian marriage.

    And yes, today - as a single women - this must be meaningful to me. I am choosing a new church. Will I look for a church that reflects the wife I want to be? Or will I search for a church that wants "equal time" with Christ?

    That is a very important question.